{"id":23302,"date":"2020-11-28T17:05:28","date_gmt":"2020-11-28T15:05:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dialogtogether.com\/marcia-a-story-of-suffering-hate-and-love\/"},"modified":"2020-11-28T17:05:28","modified_gmt":"2020-11-28T15:05:28","slug":"marcia-a-story-of-suffering-hate-and-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dialogtogether.com\/en\/marcia-a-story-of-suffering-hate-and-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Marcia: a story of suffering, hate and love"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let me tell you a true story \u2013 small stories of significant relationships \u2013 Michal\u2019s initiative (chapter three)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Marcia Kreisel\u2019s story — some background: it\u2019s been twenty years since this took place, but it\u2019s still fresh in my mind. At the time, I was a peace activist in Nablus and was one of the founders of \u201cPanim el Panim\u201d supported by the international organization \u201cPeople to People.\u201d Rauda and I created groups for dialog between Palestinians and Jews. The idea came to me following a talk I had with a Buddhist teacher who suggested that we hold groups for sharing and discussion on transcending human suffering. The main subject was the suffering of both Palestinians and Jews due to Israeli occupation and transforming the pain into love. We had groups of 30 people, half Jewish and half Palestinian and held three-day workshops for each group. The Jews arrived in buses and were hosted in the homes of the Palestinian participants. The family hospitality was an integral part of the workshop days. Extramural to the workshops, when the hosts\u2019 neighbors heard that Jews were guests next door, they came over and told their stories of suffering, and expressed their wish for peace.<\/span><\/h3>\n

At one of the workshops one of the participants was a Jewish man who had spent his military service in Nablus, and there was also a Palestinian man who was a young man at the same time (the same age as the soldiers) who was a Hamas activist. The two men started a discussion. Each one spoke of his experiences in Nablus \u2013 the Palestinian recalled running on the roof tops and throwing rocks at soldiers, the Jew recalled chasing after the young men as a soldier\u2026we, as the hosts, watched them enthusiastically and humorously telling their stories. When they finished sharing their stories, we saw them hug each other warmly\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

At the summary stage of the workshop we asked the participants to share their conclusions. The Palestinian participant said that he discovered the strong pain caused by hatred, and how he doesn\u2019t hate his Jewish counterpart at the workshop, he feels love and is no longer willing to hate. These days, he allows himself only to love. During the telling of his story he burst into tears of pain. The Jewish participant was also very upset and shared his feelings of friendship and deep understanding towards his partner at the workshop and his and his friends\u2019 hatred.<\/span><\/p>\n

The Palestinian man continued to participate at the next workshops, he left Hamas and called himself a man of peace. He continued to speak of the monumental change he had underwent from the suffering of hate, to love.<\/span><\/p>\n

After a time, with the beginning of the second Intifada (in 2000), we stopped holding the workshops, afraid that the hatred would be reawakened and it would be hard again to meet. And then we received an email from that same man, who wrote don\u2019t worry, I haven\u2019t forgotten to love.<\/span><\/p>\n

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